Stories From a Woman’s World

Stories From a Woman’s World

Today, digital cameras and other recording devices are ubiquitous and, for better or worse, with little more than a cell phone and the inclination, most anyone can document history 24 hours a day if they choose. From breaking news of police brutality to endless vacation footage from the Pyrenees, a person’s every move can now be thoroughly documented from cradle to grave.

This is new territory. Even a decade ago when a roll of film came with just 36 exposures (and the expense of processing), documentarians had to be selective about what they sought to preserve.

But consider this. People who were alive during the advent of photography could probably only have expected to have one or two photographs of themselves taken over the course of a lifetime.

It’s this idea that has long intrigued artist [link2post id=”218″]Kyla Rafert[/link2post] whose pen and ink paintings go on view this weekend at the Richard J. Demato fine Arts Gallery in Sag Harbor. Rendered on paper both in black and white and in vibrant color, Rafert has developed a unique style of painting that uses a combination of highly pigmented inks and silk screening techniques.

The result is imagery that depicts young women in carefully choreographed scenes reminiscent of the 19th century. Set off by dazzling wallpaper and textured floor patterns, the girls’ long flowing dresses and soulful gazes speak to a society enamored of youth and beauty. But there is also a slightly surreal touch and other imagery in the scene, such as a pile of dead fish, a framed painting of a ship at sea or a curiously distracted cat, make statements about what these women value or, perhaps more accurately, what they intuitively know they have lost.

“I work pretty intuitively,” explains Rafert. “Images pop into my mind and I’m very particular. I know how I want something to be.”

“A lot of the work is about perfectionism and fetishizing beauty,” she adds. “Like the sea wives while they’re waiting. I’m playing up on it a bit and it’s slightly tongue and cheek.”

Rafert, a native of Delaware, studied at the Rhode Island School of Design and in recent years has been living in Wisconsin (though she’s currently in the midst of a move to southern Ohio). Though much of her work seems to evoke a historic narrative — particularly as it relates to the sea — she explains that her art is not a conscious reflection of any specific locale.

“I’m not so much affected by the place I’m from, but from my relationship with the ocean,” she says. “I created these while I was living in the Midwest and missed the wide open expanse. There’s a certain romantic element to missing the coast.”

But it’s really the human element that figures predominately in Rafert’s work and she notes that the initial inspiration for the series came from old family photos that she scanned for her father in order to help him preserve them.

“What fascinated me was how people presented themselves in these completely invented environments,” she says. “Those backdrops of the Italian villa don’t fool anyone — or they’d pose with a favorite pet, or some weird thing.”

With the knowledge that people would sit for very few photographs in their lifetime, Rafert was fascinated by how people chose to have their images preserved.

“I love the stillness and the fact it’s such a created environment, and they are very purposefully presenting themselves in certain way,” she says. “It got me interested in Victorian imagery.”

Rafert also admits to being inspired by fairy tales — those cautionary stories of innocent girls and unseen danger lurking nearby in the woods. Often, the details in fairy tales are kept vague, Rafert notes, making them timeless and more compelling — and a bit more ominous. It’s a notion that she brings to her paintings as well.

“There’s an implied danger when you see a young girl alone in a room,” she says. “I love playing on these subtly ingrained defenses you have and being told ‘Don’t open the box.’”

That sense of danger is evident in some of Rafert’s more stark imagery of young girls in dire situations. Her ingénues are either lost in the woods, unconscious on the floor or dangling like puppets from strings in front of intricately patterned wall paper.

“They are adolescents in this perfectly constructed environment,” she explains. “The paintings all have a perfectly flat horizontal line in the background. It’s presented like a stage, with a full frontal view. It’s realistic, but unrealistic in how perfectly composed it is.”

Rafert explains that it’s all a conscious attempt at defining and freezing a moment in time and preserving the notion of idealized beauty, particularly as it was perceived in the Victorian era when photography was new and magical.

“It’s the space between youth and adulthood, the edge of decline. Right at the space before they fall apart,” explains Rafert. “I got preoccupied with preserving youth and beauty — that hyper romantic ideal that’s kind of creepy because it’s so composed.”

Kyla Rafert’s inaugural exhibition at the Richard J. Demato Fine Arts Gallery (90 Main Street, Sag Harbor) opens this Saturday, November 19 from 6 to 8 p.m. All are invited to stop by for some pre-holiday cheer and to welcome the gallery’s newest artist. For more information, call 725-1161.


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In My Mind – Limited Edition Framed Print

36 x 48 in | 91.4 x 121.9 cm



30" x 40" / 76.2 x 101.6cm
Acrylic on Linen

Winter Solstice

30" x 40" / 76.2 x 101.6cm
Oil on Linen


56" x 37" / 142.2 x 94cm
Charcoal and Water on Deep Mounted Canvas


38" x 56" / 96.5 x 142.2cm
Charcoal and Water on Deep Mounted Canvas

Expectation – Limited Edition Unframed Print

10 x 10 in, 25.4 x 25.4 cm


Winter Storage

48" x 54" / 121.9 x 137.2cm
Oil on Canvas

Talking to a Hummingbird

20" x 16" / 50.8 x 40.6cm
Watercolor on Aqua board

When the Love Blooms

Watercolor on Aquaboard


9" x 12" / 22.9 x 30.5cm
Watercolor on Aquaboard

Revoada (Diptych)

12" x 48" / 30.5 x 121.9cm
Watercolor on Aquaboard

The Ecolosion of a Butterfly

12" x 24" / 30.5 x 61cm
Watercolor on Aquaboard

In Full Bloom

16" x 20" / 40.6 x 50.8cm
Watercolor on Aquaboard

Shades of Black

8" x 8" / 20.3 x 20.3cm
Watercolor on Aquaboard

Barbershop (Triptych)

89" x 267" / 226.1 x 678.2cm
Mixed Media on Canvas

Singer Sewing Machine

36.5" x 50" / 92.7 x 127cm
Charcoal on Stonehenge Paper

Yashica Movie Camera

24" x 34.5" / 61 x 87.6cm
Charcoal on Stonehenge Paper

Vintage Cash Register

42" x 36.5" / 106.7 x 92.7cm
Charcoal on Stonehenge Paper

Vintage Scuba Helmet

38" x 27" / 96.5 x 68.6cm
Charcoal on Stonehenge Paper

Rooney (Juvenile Great Horned Owl)

15" x 22" / 38.1 x 55.9cm
Charcoal and Water on Deep Mounted Canvas

Wonton (Eastern Screech Owl)

22" x 15.5" / 55.9 x 39.4cm
Charcoal and Water on Deep Mounted Canvas

Wynter (Snowy Owl)

22" x 22" / 55.9 x 55.9cm
Charcoal and Water Mounted on Deep Canvas

Vernal Bloom

30" x 30" / 76.2 x 76.2cm
Oil on Canvas

1917 Indian Motorcycle – Limited Edition Unframed Print

44 x 88 in | 111.8 x 223.5 cm


Without Measure

20 x 24 in | 50.8 x 61 cm


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